Childhood Depression

By

Henry A. Doenlen, M.D.

The following is based on a lecture first given by Dr. Doenlen to the Baptist Hospital Children's Stress Treatment Program staff in June, 1991. It is hoped that this article can help parents and professionals understand childhood depression and how it is treated. Sheree is an imaginary patient used to illustrate the problems of a child with severe depression. This was updated 9-27-91. Since 1991, there have been some changes in terminology and improvements in medication management. Still, many parents continue to find this article to be useful.

Sheree

Sheree, age twelve, was in the intensive care unit of the hospital when I first met her. She had taken an overdose of ten sleeping pills that she had bought at the drug store. She told me she thought that the overdose would kill her. She wanted to die because her boyfriend broke up with her.


Sheree's overdose greatly surprised her parents. She had been an "A" student last year. Yet, this year, she was only able to achieve "C's." Sheree said that it was difficult to concentrate in school. Sheree's level of energy became lower and her motivation became poor. Her parents noticed that during the last month, she stayed in her room by herself, listening to music much of the time. Last year, Sheree was very popular and had many friends. This year, she gradually lost contact with her friends.


The parents noticed that Sheree would easily become upset. Even small stressors irritated her. When she became angry, Sheree "shut down" and would not talk about what made her angry. The parents also said that Sheree had a poor appetite and she had lost six pounds.


Sheree complained that she did not sleep well. She woke up several times during the night, resulting in only four hours of sleep per night. She often woke up at 4 A.M. and found herself unable to get back to sleep.


Sometimes, clues about what causes a depression can be found by asking about a person's past. Sheree's development was normal. There weren't any obvious major problems in the family such as divorce or relocation. Sheree's mother had a bout of depression two years ago for which she was prescribed Prozac, a commonly used antidepressant medication. The mother did not think that Sheree was aware of this depression.


As I talked to Sheree, I noticed that her mood was depressed. She was talkative about her problems, but her speech was soft. She said she felt bad. She just could not shake the depressed and angry feelings. She said she tried to make her depression go away by exercising. She pretended to be friendly with her peers, but this did not make her feel happy inside.
Sheree was very upset that she could not concentrate in school. She said she could read a page seven times and still not remember what she had read. She said she had been thinking about suicide over the past month.


We talked about her boyfriend. Sheree had dated him for only three months. During the third month, she began to act impolite and even mean to him. When he called, she did not return his calls. She argued with him. She said she felt less interested in him and was thinking about breaking up with him. So it really didn't surprise Sheree that he broke up with her. Yet when he broke up with her, she felt very upset. She couldn't stop crying. She went to the drug store and bought the Sominex for the overdose.


There was only one other problem found during Sheree's mental status exam. She had an occasional auditory hallucination. She heard her own voice calling her name as if it were far away. Sometimes the voice sounded so real that she got up to see who was calling her.

Depression in Children

Sheree is a child with depression. Depression often begins during adolescence, but it also can begin in early childhood. It is estimated that depression affects one out of twelve school age children. It can affect up to one out of five adults.


Child psychiatrists' ideas about depression in children have changed. Twenty years ago, psychiatrists did not think that children could become seriously depressed. Then, ten to fifteen years ago, psychiatrists thought that many different behavioral problems in children were due to depression. Children with hyperactivity, conduct problems, or anxiety would be diagnosed as having "masked," or hidden, depression. In the past five to ten years, the diagnoses of depression during childhood became more clear.


In children, depression involves irritability or "anhedonia," which is loss of enjoyment. The little things that usually bring joy no longer seem to bring a smile. It seems to take a lot to get depressed children and teenagers into a good mood. They do not handle the day-to-day stresses well. Even small inconveniences, such as not being able to find something, can result in outbursts of anger.

Signs of Depression

 

Psychological Signs:

  • Depressed, empty, or bored.

  • Sad appearance or slow behavior.

  • Crying spells.

  • Suicidal thoughts or death wishes.

  • Irritability.

  • Poor Concentration.

Physical Signs:

  • Sleep changes.

  • Appetite and weight changes.

  • Endocrine changes (some).

Depressed children, teenagers and adults all have feelings of "pervasive pessimism." This means they feel that everything is going to go wrong. Adults blame themselves for the problems. Children and early teenagers blame other people, especially their parents. This can make depression in youth seem very different from depression in adults. Depressed adults often feel guilty. Children and teenagers with depression usually feel more anger.


Depressions often begin discretely. Usually, a person can identify depression as beginning over a period of a few weeks. A happy child can become depressed at a certain age. Another child who was mildly depressed for years can have a time when the symptoms of depression become more intense.


Often, a child or adolescent tries to fight the depression. The efforts at fighting depression cause mood swings. The mood quickly changes if a child tries to behave happy, but then gives up. The mood then swings to depression or irritability.


A serious problem with depression is thoughts of suicide. Suicidal thoughts occur with three feelings. One is the feeling of helplessness, that there is no help for the problems. Second is the feeling of hopelessness, that things will never get better. The third is the feeling of being overwhelmed, that life seems so unbearable that it is not possible to go on. Often, a suicidal person won't look for help because of the feelings of helplessness and hopelessness. The person then commits suicide because he feels so overwhelmed.


Depression can become a lifelong problem. A person who has never experienced depression has a twenty percent chance of becoming depressed. If a person has one depression, he or she has a fifty percent chance of becoming depressed again. After each episode of depression, the chance of having another episode of depression increases even more.

Depression often runs in families. Depression seems to have a biological involvement. This means that although there are stressors causing a depression, there also may be biologic abnormalities in the brain that are a part of the depression.

Types of Childhood Depression

There are several different types of depressive disorders that can be diagnosed in children. Sometimes one type of depression is diagnosed at first, but later, after more information is obtained, another depression might be diagnosed. The prognosis, or future outlook, is different for the different types of depression.


The mildest form of depression is adjustment disorder with depressed mood. An adjustment disorder is a reaction to an identifiable stressor that occurs within three months after the stressor. The stressor is an event that could cause emotional upset in anyone. An adjustment disorder may result from physical or sexual abuse, a robbery at home, parents getting divorced, the first day of school, relocation of the family, or other stressors. An adjustment disorder impairs the child's school and social functioning.


The major symptom of adjustment disorder with depressed mood is, of course, depressed mood. The child looks sad, feels hopelessness, and may cry. It is important to identify properly the predominant mood. If a child is mostly anxious and not depressed, the diagnosis is adjustment disorder with anxious mood, which is a different adjustment disorder.


An adjustment disorder is not just a pattern of overreaction. Before the stressor, the child has normal mood and functioning. The depression is a result of the stressor. The adjustment reaction does not persist longer than six months. For example, a child who becomes depressed one month after a divorce could be diagnosed as having an adjustment disorder with depressed mood. If he continues to be depressed six months later, the diagnosis becomes another type of depressive disorder.


Another type of depression is dysthymic disorder, or dysthymia. Dysthymia is a mild to moderate level of depression that continues for a long time. In adults, dysthymia is diagnosed if it is present for more than two years. In children, mild to moderate depression has to be present for only one year to be diagnosed as dysthymia.


Dysthymia involves symptoms of depression "more often than not." By "more often than not," it is meant that the child feels depressed more days than he does not feel depressed.
More often than not, children with dysthymia have either a noticeable increase or decrease in appetite. More often than not, they have insomnia, which is poor sleep, or hypersomnia, which is too much sleep. More often than not, they have low energy or fatigue. On some days, children with dysthymia appear to have good energy, but on most the days, they have low energy. They complain about concentration. They easily feel helpless or hopeless.


Dysthymic disorders are not severe enough to be diagnosed as major depressions. Dysthymic disorders do not include manic or hypomanic moods. This means that dysthymic children do not have times of excessively high energy or inappropriately euphoric mood. If this occurs, the illness is diagnosed as bipolar disorder or cyclothymic disorder. When children have psychotic symptoms, including beliefs that are not in touch with reality or disorganized thinking, they have a more serious problem than dysthymia.


To be diagnosed with dysthymic disorder, the child has to have these symptoms for at least a year. Usually, dysthymia persists for many, many years. This prolonged depression causes long term impairment in academic and social functioning. Dysthymia prevents children from reaching their potential as adults. Children with dysthymic disorder should be given treatment during childhood, because if the symptoms are reduced, they can develop normally.


Another problem with dysthymic disorder is that the chance of severe depression is increased. When a child is moderately depressed, it takes less stress to cause severe depression. Dysthymia and depression during childhood increase the chance of continuing dysthymia and depression in adulthood. By treating dysthymia in childhood, it may be possible to reduce the chance of depression during adult years.


Those with dysthymia usually do not feel happy. Even when dysthymic children do well in school, they do not feel happy. It may take something special for them to feel happy. For example, children without depression say that being with friends or playing with special toys makes them happy. Dysthymic children might remember feeling happy at Disney World or on Christmas, but may not remember feeling happy at other times.


Sheree had a severe type of depression called major depression. Although major depression is a serious diagnosis, it is a common problem. Major depression involves physical symptoms as well as psychological symptoms. Major depression is a definite worsening from previous level of functioning. Such a serious depression has to be present for at least two weeks to be diagnosed as major depression. Like Sheree, children and teenagers with major depression may have felt happy and had good school and social functioning before becoming seriously depressed. With major depression, children and teenagers feel unhappy, often isolate themselves from friends, and do not function very well in the school environment.


The difference between dysthymic disorder and major depression is that dysthymic disorder involves depression "more days than not," while major depression involves depression "most days, most of the time." Functioning is more impaired with major depression than dysthymia. For example, a child with dysthymic disorder feels happy only on holidays or at Disney World, but can still go to school every day and make "A's." If the same child develops major depression, he feels even more unhappy and he may become suicidal. With major depression, concentration becomes poor and grades often decline to "C's" and "D's." This worsening impairment in functioning is a sign that the dysthymia is slipping into major depression.


Children and adolescents with major depression have depressed or irritable mood most of the day, nearly every day. They have diminished interest or pleasure in almost all activities. It seems that nothing makes them happy. There are often changes in appetite so there might be a five percent weight gain or weight loss. Weight loss, which bothered Sheree, is common with major depression. There also may be insomnia or hypersomnia. Some children with major depression sleep longer. Some may take naps when they didn't take naps before. Other children, like Sheree, lose sleep at night.


Major depression results in changes in activity level. Some people who suffer from major depression have psychomotor retardation or agitation. In other words, major depression can slow some people to the point that they even walk in "slow motion." Others may have a higher level of activity, although the activity may not be purposeful. Major depression causes fatigue or loss of energy. Children with major depression sometimes complain about feeling tired or not being able to do things.


With major depression, some people feel a sense of quilt or worthlessness. They feel that something is wrong with themselves or they are not as good as other kids. Some feel indecisive and have a hard time making decisions. Their concentration is usually lower causing a definite decline in school functioning.


Major depressions often cause children and adolescents to have persistent thoughts of death. Many think of suicide, and some even make suicide attempts. Because of the risk of suicide, major depression should definitely be treated. 

 

To diagnose major depression, it is not necessary to have all these symptoms. Still, many symptoms will occur in a child with major depression.


Major depression can involve psychotic symptoms. For example, Sheree had some hallucinations of hearing her name called. However, major depression is not diagnosed if the child has an ongoing severe psychotic illness. For example, a child with schizophrenia, schizophreniform disorder, or delusional disorder is not diagnosed as having major depression.
Unfortunately, major depression does not have the best prognosis. Ninety percent of those with major depression get better with treatment. After their first depression, a person has about a fifty percent of becoming seriously depressed again. Because it is so severe, the treatment for major depression often involves both medication and psychotherapy.


Often, a depressed child or adolescent does not have all the symptoms necessary for the diagnosis of a specific type of depression. The depression may be one that is somewhere in between adjustment disorder, dysthymia and major depression. When this happens, the depression is called, "depression, not otherwise specified." (It is also called "atypical depression," but some research psychiatrists regard atypical depression as a special type of severe depression that includes some anxiety symptoms.) Depression, not otherwise specified, may be used as an initial diagnosis because there may not be enough data and observation to confirm the diagnosis of another type of depression.


One way of thinking about atypical depression (or depression, not otherwise specified) is that it is a depression that doesn't exactly fit the other patterns of depression. For example, a mild depression that is not due to an identifiable stressor is not an adjustment disorder. A mild depression that continues for six months, but has not been going on for a year is not a dysthymic disorder. This depression could be diagnosed as atypical depression. Another example is a moderate depression or even severe depression that is brief, lasting a month or less. This also may be diagnosed as an atypical depression if it does not include enough of the symptoms of major depression.

Evaluation of Depression

The first step in helping a child or teenager with depression is to understand the depression. During a psychiatric evaluation for depression, information about current problems and past development is collected. The parent usually gives this information for their child. The child's mental status is then examined. Symptoms such as mood, hallucinations, and false beliefs are checked. The data obtained through the psychiatric evaluation is needed to make a correct diagnosis.


The medical history, physical examination, and laboratory testing are important in the evaluation. The medical examination can show if there are physical problems that cause depression. For example, thyroid problems can cause depression. A child who does not have enough thyroid hormone (hypothyroid) may gain weight, be sluggish, and have poor concentration. The appropriate treatment for low thyroid hormone is to take thyroid hormone medication. If a depression in a child is caused by a thyroid problem, treatment for depression such as psychotherapy and antidepressant medication will not help.


The laboratory studies include a serum profile, a complete blood count, and an electrocardiogram (EKG). These tests help to make sure that there are no physical illness that cause symptoms of depression. The laboratory tests also show if there are going to be problems with using medication for depression. These tests help to find problems with the liver and kidney that can cause a lack of energy or interfere with the breakdown of medication. An EKG is done before prescribing antidepressant medication to children to check for heart problems.


Part of the evaluation may include the use of check lists. An example of a helpful checklist is the Child Behavior Check List by Thomas Achenbach, Ph.D. This check list has over a hundred questions, and the answers can be tabulated into several scales. The scales help differentiate between problems with depression, anxiety, hyperactivity, and conduct. Answers to individual questions show what specific symptoms are present.


Psychological testing helps with the understanding of a child with depression. Psychological testing can be used to quantify (evaluate as a number) the symptoms of depression. Tests like the Beck Depression Inventory can be used to see if treatment is helpful. If treatment is working, the number that indicates the intensity of depression decreases. Projective psychological tests can help find the underlying or unconscious causes of depression. Examples of projective tests include the Thematic Apperception Test and the Rorschach. In the Thematic Apperception Test, the child is shown picture cards and asked to make up stories about the people shown in the cards. The stories reflect the unconscious thoughts and feelings that cause the depression. With the Rorschach test, the child describes what he sees on ink blot test. This ink block test shows if the thinking is organized and can help determine if psychosis is present. Psychological testing supplements the psychiatric examination in gathering information that can be used in diagnosis and treatment planning.

Psychotherapy

Children and adolescents with depression are helped with two basic classes of treatment, psychotherapy and medications. Psychotherapy includes many different kinds of talking strategies. When given outside a hospital program (called "out-patient" treatment), psychotherapy is usually scheduled from twice per week to every other week. Psychotherapy can be done with an individual, a family, or in a group.


There are several useful types of individual psychotherapy. Psychodynamic psychotherapy has a goal of improving insight. This psychotherapy involves understanding the child's play, fantasies, dreams, and unconscious thoughts and feelings. Supportive psychotherapy involves talking to the child about realistic problems. The child learns to make better decisions by examining alternatives in solving problems and choosing the best course of action. The child also can learn better social skills.


Cognitive therapy is a special type of psychotherapy designed specifically to help depression. Depressed people usually have repeating negative thoughts. An example of a repeating negative thought is, "I'm worthless," or "this will never get better," or "I'd be better off if I were dead." These thoughts repeat in an obsessional way. To understand this, consider that when something is memorized, it is said repeatedly until it is remembered. Repetition of the thought makes the memory become stronger. In the same way, a feeling that repeats frequently also becomes stronger.


Cognitive psychotherapy is a method of "reprogramming" thoughts and feelings in the brain. Since negative thoughts become stronger by repetition, it is possible to make positive thoughts stronger by repeating them. During cognitive psychotherapy, the child is taught to respond to repeating negative thoughts by replacing them with positive thoughts. Positive thoughts are mentally repeated in the same way as memorization. This makes it easier, even automatic, to think positive thoughts instead of negative thoughts.


For example, a child thinks his mother hates him because she does not give him what he wants. We can help by asking the child to think, "Mother shows me she loves me by taking care of me." Sheree thought that no boy would ever like her again. The positive thought response was, "Other boys will like me, since one already did." Sheree also could remind herself of the likable traits in her personality. She was taught to write down the positive thoughts and practice thinking them repeatedly.


Family psychotherapy is vitally important in the treatment of depressed children and teenagers. Often, stressful problems in the family are at the root of the depression. Also, parents find raising a child with depression can be very difficult. The parents feel helpless and hopeless, not knowing what to do. 


Family psychotherapy can address these problems. Family therapy can help uncover difficult problems and assist the family in resolving them. With family therapy, the parents can be taught special strategies that can make it easier to care for a depressed child. These strategies include teaching the parents how to help their child with cognitive therapy techniques. The parents can help the child develop positive thoughts to deal with depressing negative thoughts that may be occurring.

Suicide Prevention

Depression causes serious risk of suicide in children and adolescents. Family psychotherapy helps to address the issue of managing suicidal children at home. Parents should get rid of guns, knives, and other objects that can be used in suicide attempts. It is especially important to make sure there are no firearms in the home, since shooting is probably the most successful method of committing suicide. In suicide attempts, boys shoot themselves more often than girls. Girls usually prefer to take overdoses. Because of guns, boys have a higher chance of fatality when they attempt suicide.

Preventing Suicide
  • Take all talk of suicide seriously.
  • Remove all firearms from the home.
  • Remove large amounts of all medications.
  • Get psychiatric or psychological help.
  • Consider referral to a psychiatric hospital.

Families should not keep knives or sharp objects in the house. With a depressed child or adolescent in the home, it may be better to buy an electric razor instead of having razor blades in the bathroom. Kitchen knives can be kept a little bit dull so they won't be as dangerous. Parents should not keep high doses of medication in the home. This includes common "over the counter" medications such as aspirin or Tylenol. At the very least, medications should be kept locked away.

Parents who choose to manage a suicidal child or teenager at home should keep the child under supervision. Even after a child leaves a hospital program, there is a chance that with small amounts of stress, the child may consider suicide. It often is not possible to eliminate entirely the risk of suicide. Parents should provide a high level of supervision for the child to lower the chance of self-harming actions. If needed, parents can make sure that there is an adult home most of the time. If the parents are considering separation and divorce, it may be necessary to delay it until after the child's depression is resolved. Both parents are needed to look after a potentially suicidal child.

Medications

Medications can be very helpful for some children and adolescents with depression. Medications are especially useful for those with physical symptoms or who are unable to talk in psychotherapy. The medications most often used in treating depression are the "antidepressant medications." Most of the antidepressant medications used in children and adolescents are "tricyclic" antidepressants, which refer to their three ringed chemical structure.


Although tricyclic antidepressants are not approved by the Federal Food and Drug Administration (FDA) for treatment of depression in children, there is much research that shows that tricyclic antidepressants can be very effective in children. The use of tricyclic antidepressants in children has been listed in the American Psychiatric Association treatment manual, and they are widely used by child psychiatrists.


The antidepressant most researched for children is Tofranil (generic name imipramine). Tofranil is approved for use in children with bed wetting. Tofranil is reasonably safe. (Compared to alcohol, Tofranil is much safer.) People have taken Tofranil for a long time without it causing any known long term negative effects. Most of the side effects are dose related, meaning the side effect can be stopped by lowering the dose of the medication. Because it is reasonably safe, Tofranil has been used in the treatment of several different emotional illnesses in children. 


In the body, Tofranil breaks down into another medicine called Norpramin (generic name is desipramine). This means that Norpramin can be used as safely as Tofranil. The advantage of using Norpramin over Tofranil is that Norpramin is less sedating and less likely to lower blood pressure. There has also been much research on using Norpramin with children.


Another medication, Pamelor (generic name nortriptyline), has been researched with children. Pamelor is the breakdown product of Elavil (generic name amitriptyline). Elavil could be given to children, but it has many anticholinergic side effects, such as dry mouth or constipation. Pamelor has fewer side effects than Elavil, and Pamelor seems effective in the treatment of childhood depression. One advantage of Pamelor is that it comes in liquid form for children who do not like pills.


The antidepressants are generally effective in helping depression. Besides helping to reduce depressed mood, they also may help reduce the irritability that occurs in childhood depression. Additional research shows that Tofranil, Norpramin, and Pamelor can increase concentration and attention span.


Antidepressant medications have to be used with care. They can cause some adverse effects, such as increasing the chance of seizures. It is possible that antidepressants can worsen a condition called heart block. Heart block is an increase in the time it takes for the electrical impulse to go from the atria, the top chambers of the heart, through the ventricles, to the bottom chambers of the heart. During treatment of children and adolescents with antidepressant medications, an EKG is done when the dose is increased and then every few months to check for problems such as heart block.


Unfortunately, antidepressant medications do not work quickly. At first, antidepressant medications have to be given in small doses. The dose of the medication is gradually increased. The antidepressant medication is prescribed this way to lessen side effects such as sedation and lower blood pressure. The amount of medication in the blood is checked to make sure that the level is within the therapeutic range. Having the correct blood level helps the medication give its maximum effect.


While the dose is being increased, the antidepressant medication may not give significant effects. Once the medication dose is at the proper level, it may take up to two weeks to begin to work. By the end of one month, there should be observable helpful effects from the medication. The antidepressant medications seem to reach maximum effect in about three months.
Even after the depression improves and resolves, the antidepressant medication should still be taken for several months. If the medication is discontinued before this time, there is a higher chance that the symptoms of depression can return. After this time, the dose of the antidepressant medication is gradually decreased. The gradual lowering of the dose helps to make sure that depression does not quickly develop when the medication is at a lower level. If depression does return, the antidepressant medication can be given for another three months before the dose is lowered again. If depression does not return, the medication is eventually discontinued.
Another type of antidepressant medication, Monoamine Oxidase Inhibitors (MAOI's), are usually not used with children. For MAOI's to be used safely, the patient should stay on a special MAOI diet. Eating the wrong food can cause very high blood pressure that can result in brain stroke. MAOI's are occasionally prescribed to teenagers with serious depressions that do not respond to other medications.


More recently discovered antidepressant medications also may be very useful with children. The newer antidepressants generally have fewer side effects than the tricyclic antidepressants. Sometimes a new antidepressant such as Prozac (generic name is fluoxetine) can help a depression when other medications do not help. However, newer antidepressant medications are used with children only after other treatments fail, because there is little research about their use with children.


Anti-anxiety medications (in the benzodiazepine family) can be used in children with depression, but they are often not prescribed. The reason they can be used is because the Federal Food and Drug Administration approved some anti-anxiety medications for use in children. The anti-anxiety drugs are generally safe and have very low toxicity. The problem with anti-anxiety medicines is that they can cause disinhibition or paradoxical excitement, in a manner similar to alcohol. Behavioral disinhibition can result in poor judgement and behavior problems. When anti-anxiety medications are given to children, they are used at very low 
doses.

Hospital Treatment of Depression

Most children and adolescents are helped with psychotherapy and possibly medication given outside a hospital. Treatment in a hospital should be considered when children and teenagers develop any of these serious problems: (1) suicide attempts or compelling thoughts to commit suicide, (2) behavior that mutilates their own bodies, such as cutting lacerations, symbols, or letters in the skin, (3) dangerous or assaultive behaviors toward other people, (4) serious impairments in functioning such as not being able to attend school or not being able to manage personal hygiene, (5) serious physical symptoms of depression, such as excessive weight loss. Treatment in a hospital is more intensive, and allows for more consistent supervision than is available outside a hospital program.


Hospital treatment of depression includes several different approaches and resources. Each child or adolescent has an attending psychiatrist who orders and coordinates the various evaluations and treatments. Individual psychotherapy is given almost daily. Various psychotherapy groups focus on improving self-esteem, developing communication skills, understanding stressful problems, and learning problem solving strategies. Family psychotherapy, parent education, and multi-family activities allow the parents and siblings to be involved in the treatment. Behavior management approaches can help shape behaviors that are appropriate for the child's age. If medication is needed, it can be more safely started and monitored in a hospital.


Because of her serious depression and suicide attempt, Sheree was treated in the Stress Center for two weeks before she was well enough to safely continue her treatment outside the hospital. When admitted to a hospital, children and adolescents are kept long enough to resolve the most serious symptoms of depression. Most are discharged in five weeks or less. After discharge from the hospital, out-patient treatment usually should continue for several months.

Parenting the Depressed Child

Many children with depression are treated outside the hospital. Children who are treated in a hospital are discharged when they are stable, but the depression is usually not fully resolved. Being a parent is rarely easy, but taking care of a depressed child at home is even more of a challenge.


It is most important to leave the lines of communication open with a depressed child. Often, the depressed child does not want to talk. The parents should briefly say, from time to time, that they love the child and they are there if the child needs to talk. Then, the parents should be readily available for the child when he is ready to talk. The depressed child may not respond warmly to hearing he is loved, but he will feel some comfort and support from hearing this.


With depressed children, the usual methods of parenting do not seem to work. Some children with depression have poor energy and motivation. They do not finish their chores or their schoolwork. They may want to remain alone, away from family and even friends. Other children with depression are angry and irritable. They argue easily, and might even try to break objects or hurt people.


Because the depressed child does not take care of his own responsibilities, the parents usually feel that some form of discipline is needed. Yet discipline does not seem to be effective. Punishments do not seem to deter problem behaviors because the depressed child already thinks that nothing is going to go well. Punishment seems to confirm the child's pessimism and makes the anger and depression worse. Rewards are less satisfying in a depressed child. He does not work for rewards, because he has a loss of the ability to enjoy them.


Since depressed children often have low energy levels, they can often "out wait" their parents. In lengthy time outs, some depressed children can wait without feeling bored. Some can sit alone for hours without feeling bored or uncomfortable. Depressed children are usually irritable, so hollering at them results in their becoming more angry. Some depressed children will not back down to their parents. This rebellion can lead to long, loud arguments and sometimes destructive actions.
With these thoughts in mind, there are three strategies to consider to help a depressed child or adolescent at home. First, the parents should maintain the level of supervision needed to prevent suicide. Second, parents should not expect rewards and punishments to have a serious impact. Parents can use short term rewards or punishments to help maintain some sense of rules and consequences. For example, a child or teenager could be grounded for a brief time, no more than three days, or something can be taken away for an equally brief time.


The third strategy is to avoid long arguments with a depressed child. Discussions about disagreements should be kept to five minutes or less. If the child is angry or shouting, he should be told that there will be no further discussion until he is calm. Parents do not have to allow a depressed child to have his way. Parents should not expect the depressed child to learn much from discipline, but with these strategies, some discipline can be maintained at home.
Helping a child with depression at home requires professional help. The child should keep appointments for individual psychotherapy, and the family should participate in family psychotherapy. The therapist can help with developing other strategies that may make it possible to help the child at home.

Conclusion

I hope that this presentation about childhood depression helps in the understanding of serious depression in this age group. With the treatments available today, children and adolescents have a better chance for recovery from depression and can grow into happier and productive adults.

 

REFERENCES

American Psychiatric Association: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 3rd ed. revised. Washington DC, American Psychiatric Association, 1987
American Psychiatric Association Task Force: Treatments of Psychiatric Disorders, vol. 1. Washington DC, American Psychiatric Association, 1989

Copyright 1991 Henry A. Doenlen, M.D. All rights reserved.

About the Author...

Henry A. Doenlen, M.D. is certified by the American Board of Neurology and Psychiatry in both General Psychiatry and Child Psychiatry. His practice is with Psychological Associates, P.A. in Pensacola, Florida. Dr. Doenlen specializes in the out-patient treatment of emotional disorders and substance abuse in children, adolescents, and their families. Dr. Doenlen is available to give this talk, as well as talks on other topics involving problems with children and adolescents. Interested groups may contact him at the location below:
Address: Psychological Associates, P.A.

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